This model includes three options:
- Lose, lose. Taking on more than is manageable, ending up overwhelmed and with sacrificed quality overall. This is possible, particularly if the transition away from professional life and the active quest for new valuable experiences. Being patient for good opportunities and being careful to
- Win, lose. Giving up something good for something better. This is where I spend most of my time thinking, and I am sure other folks do to. There are so many great opportunities to serve and learn that time and appropriate effort need to be carefully evaluated before adding or considering anything new.
- Win, win. Intentional constructive networking and that contributes positively to an institutional initiative while challenging professional growth and learning. This is ideal, but in moderation (refer to lose, lose).
While each of us have experience with making difficult decisions like this doctoral programs are different and challenge norms and ways of thinking. With careful, realistic thought good decisions can be made that do not compromise academic work or sanity during graduate work.
Remember that what lies ahead might be a challenge but it is worth every minute.
This is so rational. I admire your thinking. I usually went for the "ponder, decide, re-think, overwhelm, nap, panic, rinse, repeat" approach to things my first year. Good that you're learning this so early!
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